Dependancy

So my ex decided that I would never have to be dependent of anyone, yet basically made me dependent on him.  Kind of counterproductive.  Being a stay at home mom has taught me much more.

However, I went for a visit to another state and forgot my most important text book for school:  the one that actually has the labs in it.  I realized it early enough to pass on the needed information to my husband so that he could get it done in time rather than have overdue assignments.

Guess what.  They are overdue.  He had all week to work on it (and it's REALLY super EASY.. I mean you just follow directions!), and it's still not done thirty minutes after the due date.  Instead of helping me out, he's been busy doing other stuff with other people for himself.

One time offenses aren't as big of a deal, even if they are upsetting.  But when I was working and relying on him to get to work, I would be constantly late.  There have been times where we've needed to do something within a month or two that would never get done.  Thanks to that last one, my son is no longer on health insurance.

It stacks up.  But I can't say anything to him, because no matter what I do or say, he gets offended.  I try to be honest and open about my feelings (and try to do it in a loving manner) and get shot down.  I thought you were supposed to talk about how you felt in a relationship.

I'm pretty upset that I try so hard to do good in school, and he's "supportive" but when it comes time to rely on him for help, he takes his sweet little time--which is far TOO LONG.

Poison.